Once upon a time most NZ BDSM groups like ours had web pages, but bit by bit most of the pages have faded away, most notably the closest thing to an all-in-one website directory called Whisperings. TES has gone through various websites over the years as offers of hosting etc have come and gone, but we're still here with our latest incarnation on our own domain name.


Most other groups have tended to remain active even though the websites might no longer be around. Contact us to ask about any particular area of NZ and we can probably put you onto a group organiser kind of person. Also by going to you probably won't have to look too hard to find something.


The two main South Island groups still have working web pages:

Southern Kinx - Dunedin & Southland
Uncommon Bonds - Christchurch


As mentioned a couple of times on this site, many of our members are active on the BDSM online community Fetlife.

To submit a link for this list or to report a broken link email the Committee.


Also note that any attendee to any meeting or event must be at least 18 years old, no exceptions.